NAC I felt the same way about the Kehlani thing but was afraid to say anything in fear of being called homophobic. I'm bi as well (though I'm considering the possibility I may be only be into women) and somewhere on the asexual scale (maybe demisexual and demiromantic — no pun intended). It was weird to me that people were praising it because it was with a woman when I feel like that's no different than the stereotype of sexualizing wlw.
feel free to share everything you think and feel… this is a judgement free environment!! 💞Kaity